Comments on: Miscarriage. http://jerseymomma.com/2008/10/01/miscarriage/ Proceed with Caution. Thu, 29 Jul 2010 11:44:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: My Month In Panic Attack Prison | Jersey Momma http://jerseymomma.com/2008/10/01/miscarriage/#comment-62 My Month In Panic Attack Prison | Jersey Momma Mon, 03 Nov 2008 03:59:36 +0000 http://jerseymomma.com/?p=18#comment-62 [...] after loosing the baby, I had 3 monster panic attacks that left me home-bound for almost the entire month.  If [...] [...] after loosing the baby, I had 3 monster panic attacks that left me home-bound for almost the entire month.  If [...]

]]> By: Seashoremarge http://jerseymomma.com/2008/10/01/miscarriage/#comment-60 Seashoremarge Sun, 02 Nov 2008 19:55:20 +0000 http://jerseymomma.com/?p=18#comment-60 Wow, I just realized you have been through this. So sorry. I'll pray. If you need anything, I'm only a town away. Wow, I just realized you have been through this. So sorry. I’ll pray. If you need anything, I’m only a town away.

]]> By: margaret http://jerseymomma.com/2008/10/01/miscarriage/#comment-59 margaret Sun, 02 Nov 2008 17:08:27 +0000 http://jerseymomma.com/?p=18#comment-59 I know exactly how you feel. I was 15 weeks into my first pregnancy when I found out I lost the baby. Did they do tests to find out why (usually they do if it's in the second trimester, because like you said, it's not common). Hang in there, the pain will get easier. It never fully goes away (there are times still, 8 years later, that I think what if?) I know exactly how you feel. I was 15 weeks into my first pregnancy when I found out I lost the baby. Did they do tests to find out why (usually they do if it’s in the second trimester, because like you said, it’s not common). Hang in there, the pain will get easier. It never fully goes away (there are times still, 8 years later, that I think what if?)

]]> By: Julieze http://jerseymomma.com/2008/10/01/miscarriage/#comment-48 Julieze Thu, 30 Oct 2008 17:24:55 +0000 http://jerseymomma.com/?p=18#comment-48 Hi, I believe I needed to read your post to knock some sense into my head. I have actually been feeling bad about being pregnant again more because of the fact that I am emotionally, physically and psychologically not ready for another baby after the twins. I had been doing so well with my NFP and was able to keep off being pregnant for 19 months after their birth so to find out I was pregnant was devastating for me. Many a times I wish to go to the bathroom and find blood and that it all over and I am not pregnant. In fact I had tried and tried to accept my state and many a times I do only to find my self relapsing. Many a times I feel so guilty just even thinking about wanting to lose the baby. I am 10 weeks pregnant and i guess stumbling on your site was just to knock some sense into my head. Thanks for sharing your experience, believe me, you have touched a life. Hi, I believe I needed to read your post to knock some sense into my head. I have actually been feeling bad about being pregnant again more because of the fact that I am emotionally, physically and psychologically not ready for another baby after the twins. I had been doing so well with my NFP and was able to keep off being pregnant for 19 months after their birth so to find out I was pregnant was devastating for me. Many a times I wish to go to the bathroom and find blood and that it all over and I am not pregnant. In fact I had tried and tried to accept my state and many a times I do only to find my self relapsing. Many a times I feel so guilty just even thinking about wanting to lose the baby. I am 10 weeks pregnant and i guess stumbling on your site was just to knock some sense into my head.

Thanks for sharing your experience, believe me, you have touched a life.

]]> By: Christie (Snappymom) http://jerseymomma.com/2008/10/01/miscarriage/#comment-45 Christie (Snappymom) Wed, 29 Oct 2008 20:32:52 +0000 http://jerseymomma.com/?p=18#comment-45 Sending you many hugs and much love for you in your time of grief. I am so sorry. Sending you many hugs and much love for you in your time of grief. I am so sorry.

]]> By: Laurie http://jerseymomma.com/2008/10/01/miscarriage/#comment-14 Laurie Sun, 05 Oct 2008 16:54:19 +0000 http://jerseymomma.com/?p=18#comment-14 (((hugs))) So sorry for your loss. It is heart-wrenching when this happens. Weirdly, I too had dreams with my healthy pregnancies - I knew each one was okay and a boy. But between child #1 and #2 I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks and I knew for weeks that something was wrong - and I never dreamed of that baby. Our intuition is a powerful thing. Take good care of yourself and hold that little boy you do have tight every night. That's what got me through my loss. (((hugs))) So sorry for your loss. It is heart-wrenching when this happens. Weirdly, I too had dreams with my healthy pregnancies - I knew each one was okay and a boy. But between child #1 and #2 I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks and I knew for weeks that something was wrong - and I never dreamed of that baby. Our intuition is a powerful thing.

Take good care of yourself and hold that little boy you do have tight every night. That’s what got me through my loss.

]]> By: Lucretia Pruitt http://jerseymomma.com/2008/10/01/miscarriage/#comment-13 Lucretia Pruitt Sat, 04 Oct 2008 05:55:42 +0000 http://jerseymomma.com/?p=18#comment-13 Amber hon? I just wanted to take another second to let you know how profoundly sorry I am for your loss. Planned or unplanned, joyfully relieved or shocked then accepted, there's just no difference when it comes to the heartbreak of losing a baby. I'm so sorry you have joined the ranks of women who know this loss. It's not a simple grief. But there are many out there who get it. If you think it will help, find a support group. If not, remember that you have your own support group (from twitter and elsewhere) and we are grieving with you. (((((hug))))) Amber hon? I just wanted to take another second to let you know how profoundly sorry I am for your loss.

Planned or unplanned, joyfully relieved or shocked then accepted, there’s just no difference when it comes to the heartbreak of losing a baby.

I’m so sorry you have joined the ranks of women who know this loss. It’s not a simple grief. But there are many out there who get it. If you think it will help, find a support group. If not, remember that you have your own support group (from twitter and elsewhere) and we are grieving with you.

(((((hug)))))

]]> By: Jaimieh http://jerseymomma.com/2008/10/01/miscarriage/#comment-12 Jaimieh Fri, 03 Oct 2008 04:02:36 +0000 http://jerseymomma.com/?p=18#comment-12 Just got your text and read this... Please know we will continue sending up prayers for you during this difficult time for you & your family. moment by moment...day by day blessings & hugs...... Just got your text and read this…
Please know we will continue sending up prayers for you
during this difficult time for you & your family.

moment by moment…day by day

blessings & hugs……

]]> By: Andrea/SpunkyLife31 http://jerseymomma.com/2008/10/01/miscarriage/#comment-11 Andrea/SpunkyLife31 Thu, 02 Oct 2008 21:22:00 +0000 http://jerseymomma.com/?p=18#comment-11 I am so sorry! I'm a brand new reader to your site, followed you over from twitter. Just wanted to tell you I am so sorry for your loss. I've gone through this myself, years ago, and it's a horrible thing to try to deal with and get through. I won't say "get over" because you never will, but the pain will lessen over the years. I still think about the little one I lost all the time. I wish I could say something witty and smart that would help you with this pain but there isn't anything that can be said other then if you ever want to talk, or vent, or cry, let me know... I'll be keeping you in my thoughts. Andrea I am so sorry! I’m a brand new reader to your site, followed you over from twitter. Just wanted to tell you I am so sorry for your loss. I’ve gone through this myself, years ago, and it’s a horrible thing to try to deal with and get through. I won’t say “get over” because you never will, but the pain will lessen over the years. I still think about the little one I lost all the time. I wish I could say something witty and smart that would help you with this pain but there isn’t anything that can be said other then if you ever want to talk, or vent, or cry, let me know…

I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts.

Andrea

]]> By: Dara Rochlin http://jerseymomma.com/2008/10/01/miscarriage/#comment-10 Dara Rochlin Thu, 02 Oct 2008 19:41:35 +0000 http://jerseymomma.com/?p=18#comment-10 I had to come over here and comment and tell you how strong you are and what a wonderful woman you are as well. I know you only via Twitter and i would love to send you a great big hug. Hang in there, and every day it will get easier. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. I had to come over here and comment and tell you how strong you are and what a wonderful woman you are as well. I know you only via Twitter and i would love to send you a great big hug. Hang in there, and every day it will get easier.

My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

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